As a child,
my mother would dress me, very frequently, in purple. Not the deep, rich royal purple or the
intense, alluring aubergine purple, but the frilly, light, 80’s inspired
purple. I look back on those days and
cringe. I was scarred for life, feeling
like purple was a required piece of clothing as opposed to a color. To make matters even more girly, my mother
had my room decorated all in pink—two twin pink heart headboard beads, with
pink blankets, pink pillows, pink ruffles, and even freaking pink frilly
shames…. Sorry, just thinking about it brings up too much emotion.
I was never
a girly-girl… Never! My mother’s want of
a prim, proper, and graceful daughter was crushed by a clumsy, pink/purple
abhorring, tomboy. Once I reached the
age where I could dress and select my clothes myself, I completely turned away
from all the purple and pink. Did I
mention I felt scarred for life? Just
now, as an adult, well over 20 years later, I can finally wear pink or purple
(not together, that is just too much) without recalling bad childhood
memories. I am still not a girly-girl,
but you do not have to be one to wear pink or purple.
Every once
and a while, I mention to my mother that if she did not push me so hard into
pink and purple, I may have come around to those colors a lot earlier in
life. (Truth be told, as a kid I had no
hair and my mom got tired of people thinking I was a little boy. The girl colors, and glued on hair bows
helped to set those people straight.
Thanks, mom!)
My co-worker
asked me to make these cookies for her granddaughter’s 1st Birthday party. To go with the princess theme, mom and
grandma bought two pink tutus, pink Chuck Taylors, and pink onesies. Mom also made a pink princess hat, that
involved pink fur around the brim. Yes,
little granddaughter was going to be all girly-ed out for her first birthday
party.
After seeing
the above evolve over several weeks and making the cookies, I told grandma that
her granddaughter will either grow-up to be really prissy and girl, or hate the
color pink… trust me I speak from experience.
For the sake of mom’s and grandma’s sanity, I hope it is the former (the
girly option). Nevertheless, if she does
hate pink, they should be able to take solace in the fact that one day she may
come around; look at me, I did, and I am semi-normal :-D
To make
these cookies, I used my favorite decorated sugar cookie recipe, royal icing, edible pearls,
and luster dust.
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